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However this is still very uncommon in suburban area. It acts as the principle witness to the ceremony. But in India that would not happen. That Indian beauty queen beat out thousands of women to win.

The time from Roka to marriage must not be longer than around 9 months maximum and rarely would exceed a year. The bad part about is the typical indian dont look anything close to them, like no indian guy looks close to hritik roshan. They age worse then white women, which is sad.

Dating Differences Between American & East Indian Cultures

India has much diversity in terms of cultures and religions. Dating habits differ widely in all these areas. This article is about area 2, which is comprised of Sikhs and Hindus. In most cases, dating in this region starts after parents arrange marriage. In this article, we will look at the culture and past of this region. It would be really very difficult to comprehend the dating habits of this area unless we have a look into historical background of this region. During invasions, the looting of property and the rape of females was common. It was normal to abandon the raped woman even if she was married and some fathers would abandon a girl child if she was raped. Though not as true now, divorce was a major taboo. Satis are worshipped and there are many temples in that state. Now sati, though still there in some small areas, is illegal. While widowers had no restriction on getting married again, widows getting remarried was absolutely forbidden, even in cases where a girl becomes a widow at a young age for example in her twenties. This area witnessed generations and generations of illiterate women. Women, till the 1950s, were generally not very educated, and certainly not professionally qualified. There are many older females here who did not see their husband before marriage. This all started changing from 1950 onwards but drastic changes started coming in the late 1980s. Girls are considered a liability here and female infanticide or foeticide is prevalent. All laboratories here have to display in a very prominent manner that they do not determine the sex of unborn children. Any offence in such cases is punished heavily. Four years ago, the head of this body, Mrs. Jagir Kaur, allegedly got her daughter killed as she eloped with her boyfriend during dating. The case is pending trial. Parents first look for a suitable match. After they choose one, the boy and girl are made to see each other. In many cases, father of the girl has to give approval even against his wishes because it would bring bad name to family in case girl elopes with the boy. Before marriage, a list of such relatives is given to father of the bride to be. Dowry is illegal, but still it continues unabated. It is insulting for a boy to get a bride without a dowry, and even today, on and off one can hear instances that a new bride is burned alive because of insufficient dowry. Almost as a rule, while it is desirable for a boy to be a virgin at the time of marriage, a girl must be a virgin. This term comes from ancient times where a common form of punishment was to blacken the face of guilty and take him around the village riding on back of a donkey. Therefore, while raising a girl, the family takes all possible precautions to keep the girl under watch. A girl usually takes her mom into confidence before and during dating. Going to bed, before marriage even if marriage is announced , is a big no-no. A child born before nine months of marriage is hot and spicy news. People in a town will keep the event in active memory for almost a lifetime. Boys would generally like to be seen around with a girl while girls prefer silent and isolated places which offer some privacy. A couple can move together in Cinemas, discos, parks or anywhere but the girl must be back at home before sunset. A drinking or smoking girl is looked on as being easy available. Invariably many heads would turn towards a drinking or smoking girl, that is if you are able to spot one. In movies here, how do you conclude about character of a girl? A heroine would never be drinking or smoking and a villain probably would either be carrying a drink or shown smoking. Therefore, the girl usually will not be better qualified or earning more than the boy. This region is one of the most color conscious areas in the world and girl must be fair complexioned. For boys, probably the first factor in mind is skin color. People here have various complexions ranging from a dark tanned one to a fair pinkish glow. If a girl is fair skinned than many traits such as a poor dowry would take a backseat. Among the salaried class, the choice of which girl to dated comes to who earns better. Boys in business generally look for a date that is beautiful, preferably from the same community and someone who would be happy sitting at home and not working. This weighs heavily during dating. Both have to be dressed smartly and especially the boy, has to flaunt his material possessions car, mobile or other gadgets. Expensive cars and the latest mobile gadgets are ultimate symbols of prosperity. A Boy is expected to give expensive gifts to the girl during dating. It is an insult for a girl when she is not able to flaunt the gifts among her friends. Boys are expected to be macho, and able to save a sweetheart single handedly from any untoward incident. This continues, for around a month, and then the next ceremony is announced. Sometime dating continues until the boy is successful enough to marry. The time from Roka to marriage must not be longer than around 9 months maximum and rarely would exceed a year. This is because if during dating, the pair breaks up, it would be difficult to get another match for the girl. This is part of the dowry. This is generally a week before marriage. Marriage is a very expensive affair here. If a middle-income man has three children to marry, he would have nothing left for himself after the marriages, well almost nothing. The author now lives in Canada. This entry was posted on Thursday, January 26th, 2006 at 12:19 pm and is filed under. You can follow any responses to this entry through the feed. Both comments and pings are currently closed.

Basic qualities of a marriage in India are union of the family, family togetherness, family happiness, and family sharing the same goals. If they have been negative with a certain ethnic group or class, then that is his experience. Simpy put: While men are encouraged to be independent, it takes them time to reach a stage where they can fulfill all the responsibilities that indian dating culture with a romantic relationships. Some would say the former is a much stronger base to build a marriage on as at the end of everything, a marriage boils down to exactly those two factors. Skinny or badly shaped legs, so after 30 most look like a lemon on matchsticks. No one can make you happy but you. Tabula Rasa your butt, it hurts, i know, it shows.